Cute ways to ask “Will you be my bridesmaid?”

If you have just said ‘I do’ to your partner, the next proposal that needs to be done is to ask the special girls in your life, “Will you be my bridesmaid?”.

When It comes to asking that all important question to your bridesmaids-to-be, you will want to make it a special occasion and give them something that they can treasure, so If you are looking for a unique and creative way to pop the question to your besties, then look no further. We have come up with some great ideas for when you ask that all important question.

Arrange a Get Together

If you want to ask your bridesmaids individually, you could arrange to meet each bridesmaid at your favourite coffee shop. Bring a personalised mug with you and ask the barista to make your friends coffee in it.

Not on the High Street have cute mugs that are perfect for the job! The mug is plain on the outside, but at the bottom of the mug there is a secret message, with the words, “Will you be my bridesmaid?”. The mugs are £16 each and come in a gift box.

Balloon in a Box

A cute gift to present to your bridesmaid is a balloon in box, but this is not just any old balloon. Bubble Balloons are personalised and filled with heart confetti, a tail of pinks, purples, and gold is attached as well as a decorative bow.

In addition, the balloon is wrapped in sheets of colour coordinated tissue paper and gift boxed. The balloon is filled with helium and will stay afloat around 1-2 weeks. Bubble Balloons can be purchased from Not on the High Street for £32 each.

Gift Box

A personalised gift box is a lovely way to pop the question to your bestie. Brides say, “If quirky or non-traditional gestures aren’t your thing, a simple gift box filled with wedding-related items is a safe—and thoughtful—bet. Fill the box with a mini bottle of bubbly, nail polish, sheet masks, and other sweet treats along with a handwritten note from you.”


Jewellery is a lovely way of proposing to your bridesmaids. It is thoughtful and a lovely keepsake for them to treasure in the years to come.

Etsy have a great range of beautiful jewellery to choose from, from personalised bracelets to necklaces, all beautifully presented on gift cards and in boxes.

Bridesmaid Proposal Kit

This a really fun way to ask your bridal squad, “Will you be my bridesmaid?”. The DIY kit contains a confetti filled balloon, ribbon, box, tag, and message.

This is a great idea as you can also add your own gift inside the box which is personal to each bridesmaid. Bridesmaid proposal kits are available from Etsy for £8.41.

Wine Labels

Personalised wine bottle labels are a fun way to ask your best girls to be a part of your wedding party. The wine labels include bridesmaids name, wedding details and personal message. Kraft self-adhesive wine and champagne labels are handmade and are available from Etsy at £2.16 each.

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